The day flies by and at the end, there’s something missing. You’ve checked many things off your “to do” list and yet that seems like a hollow victory. You’re not satisfied with the day and what you’ve accomplished.
While many may feel this way from time to time, in my early years, this nagging feeling was always present. At the age of 26, I was an industrial engineer working for a Fortune 100 company in the Lehigh Valley. My friends and family thought I had it made. I was young, drove a hot sports car, had a good income and was upwardly mobile in a major corporation. And yet every workday I was counting the hours till I could leave work and begin my life.
The inner me was sick, maybe dying. Then one evening, with nothing else to do, I accompanied a friend to a lecture about meditation. The teacher presenting the talk told us that there’s something missing in most people’s lives. He said what’s missing isn’t “out there” in the world, it’s inside!
Was I looking for contentment and satisfaction in the wrong places? I was climbing the ladder of success at work, but was it against the wrong wall? I was trying to be a good engineer, a good employee, a good son and a good friend. There was lots of pressure and it was tiring. My employer, for example, told me that I needed to spend a minimum of 10 hours a day at work if I wanted to get ahead.
In desperation and with hope, I followed up on my gut instinct that night and enrolled in the meditation course. Almost immediately, I experienced a significant shift toward greater happiness and well-being. Two years later, I found myself enrolling in a year-long training program to become a meditation teacher.
In training, our teacher frequently told us that we were learning to “do less and accomplish more.” Just sit, close your eyes and be still. Inside you will find the peace and contentment that you have always desired. It’s our essence, pure awareness, and it’s found at the source of thought. Life is not meant to be a struggle. Make a practice of returning to the quiet mind every day. The positive influence on the quality of your life will be magical.
Let me know if I can help.
Greg Schweitzer, Director of Stress Reduction Resources and Effortless Meditation™ Instructor for more than 30 years